Life is full of twists and turns, some anticipated, others entirely unforeseen. Today, I find myself reflecting on a new perspective that I have found is helpful to me. I have decided that instead of looking at this unexpected turn as an abrupt end, I am now seeing it as a fresh beginning.
The Moment of Dropping
When I say "dropped," I mean it both literally and metaphorically. Imagine holding something precious, something you’ve grown attached to, and then, without any forewarning, it slips through your fingers. That’s precisely what happened to me. My daughter, whom I never thought I’d be without, is now gone. The shock of the loss was immediate. I have been reeling from it for the past 8 months. However, today I had a change in my thought process. I have had the realization that I now have a space—a void that’s begging to be filled with new experiences, new memories. I am pleasantly surprised that I am finding I am a bit excited.
Embracing Change
Change is often met with resistance. We cling to the familiar because it provides comfort and certainty. I ask myself this question, "What if I viewed these unexpected drops not as losses but as opportunities?" Opportunities to grow, to explore, to redefine ourselves. This sudden drop in my life has given me a chance to reevaluate what truly matters, to let go of what no longer serves me, and to make room for the new.
Finding Strength in the Strange
There’s strength in the strange, in the unfamiliar. It challenges me to adapt, to innovate, and to discover parts of myself I never knew existed. Today, as I navigate this new reality, I’m reminded of the importance of resilience. Life’s unpredictability is what makes it beautiful. Can this estrangement from my adult child be a chance to learn and to evolve? I think it absolutely is that very chance.
A New Beginning
As I move forward, I choose to embrace the unexpected with open arms. This blog, Strangely Estranged, is a testament to that journey. It’s a space where we can share our experiences, our drops, and our strange estrangements. Together, we can find solace in knowing that we’re not alone, that there’s beauty in the unexpected, and that every end is a new beginning.
Join me tomorrow as we continue to explore the art of letting go and embracing the strange. Until then, keep an open heart and an open mind.
By the way, today I also went and looked at boats. I have always wanted to own a boat. Now I am going to allow myself the opportunity to have one! I allowed myself to have fun today. It was a wonderful day.
Comentarios